Defendant appeals from an order which denied his petition to modify a decree of divorce by cancelling unpaid alimony, and which directed the friend of the court to “bring on contempt proceedings” against him.
In February, 1927, plaintiff obtained an uncontested decree of divorce from defendant and was given the care and custody of their minor son Jack, born May 9, 1922. The decree granted her alimony of $10 a week for the care and maintenance of said child until he attained the age of 16 years or until the further order of the court. Five days after obtaining her divorce, plaintiff remarried and four children were born of such venture. The son Jack went through school and was graduated from high school under the surname of his stepfather “Watts.” He became 16 in May, 1938, and in October, 1941, joined the Royal Canadian Air Force.
On plaintiff’s petition an order for defendant’s attachment for nonpayment of alimony was entered January 6, 1928, and on January 23, 1928, he filed petition to modify the decree by cancelling past-due and future alimony. Apparently such attachment was not served on defendant, nor was his petition for modification heard and determined. Thereafter, on one or more occasions, plaintiff interviewed the friend of the court regarding defendant’s failure to pay the alimony, but no proceedings were instituted against him until March 12, 1942, when she filed petition for an order to show cause why he should not be held in contempt for nonpayment. Five days later, on March 17th, he filed a petition to modify the decree by cancelling all accumulated unpaid alimony. It appears that the order to show cause in the contempt proceedings and defendant’s petition to amend the decree were brought on for hearing together, and testimony was taken bearing upon both issues.
*581Prior to the hearing the matter was referred to the friend of the court, who “recommended that upon payment of $300 by (defendant), * * * the alimony arrearage be cancelled.” On January 11, 1943, contrary to such recommendation, the trial court entered an order which denied defendant’s petition to amend the decree, and which directed the friend of the court “to bring on contempt proceedings” against him. Defendant appeals from such order. This being a chancery matter, we consider the same de novo.
On February 4, 1943, the trial court entered an order directing defendant to pay $20 a month, pending the present appeal, to apply on the accumulated ' unpaid alimony, such payments to be “without prejudice to the rights of either party.” The record indicates that further action in the contempt proceedings awaits our decision on this appeal.
It was shown that defendant had paid only $25 in 1927 and $50 in 1941, and that a balance of about $5,775 remained due and unpaid under the decree at the time the son Jack became 16 in 1938. The testimony of plaintiff and defendant as to why the alimony was not paid is in direct conflict. Defendant claimed that after the decree of divorce was entered in 1927, he was not permitted to visit or talk with his son, and that plaintiff agreed orally that if he would not visit the son, she would not collect the alimony. Plaintiff denied making such agreement and claimed that she had used her best efforts to make collection. The record shows that defendant remarried in 1931; that, except for about two years spent in Maine and a few months at Croswell, Michigan, he had resided continuously in the city of Detroit; that he was unemployed for about two years during the depression; that he was earning $38 to $40 a week; and that he had no property except about $100 in government bonds. Prior to *582bis becoming 16 in 1938, tbe son Jack had been supported by plaintiff and her second husband Watts, whose surname be bad assumed.
Tbe principal question before tbe trial court and before us on this review is whether or not there was such a change in tbe circumstances and condition of tbe parties as to justify modification of the divorce decree as regards alimony. Baxter v. Baxter, 296 Mich. 567. While recognizing tbe general rule that the amendment of a divorce decree is discretionary with tbe trial court, nevertheless, ,we are convinced that bad we been sitting as tbe trial court in tbe present case, we would have reached a different conclusion. The rights of tbe son are not involved, as tbe alimony allowance terminated when be became' 16, and apparently be is now self-supporting. Through tbe present contempt proceedings plaintiff is endeavoring to collect unpaid alimony to reimburse herself for moneys which she and her second husband expended for tbe support and maintenance of tbe son. Defendant promptly answered such proceedings by filing petition to amend tbe decree by cancelling tbe unpaid alimony.
Plaintiff bad no absolute right to tbe accumulated alimony, as tbe amount thereof could be changed from time to time and reduced in tbe discretion of tbe court. In Wellman v. Wellman, 305 Mich. 365, 371, we quoted with approval from Perkins v. Perkins, 10 Mich. 425, as follows:
“The decree of alimony vests in the wife no absolute right to the allowance, as it may be changed from time to time, and reduced or enlarged in the discretion' of the court.’!
See Loomis v. Loomis, 273 Mich. 7; Camp v. Camp, 158 Mich. 221.
*583In the Loomis Case a decree of divorce obtained by plaintiff Marie Loomis in September, 1928, ordered defendant to pay alimony of $20 a week for the support of their minor children. Defendant-failed to make snch payments, and in March, 1934, plaintiff filed petition for attachment. Defendant then moved to amend the decree by reducing the amount of the unpaid alimony. Plaintiff appealed from an amended decree which reduced the amount of alimony due her to $460. In affirming such amendment, we said:
“That the court may modify and revise provisions for alimony is unquestioned, Sherman v. Kent, 223 Mich. 200, also 3 Comp. Laws 1929, §§ 12739, 12748 (Stat. Ann. §§ 25.97, 25.106). However, there must be a change in the condition of the parties arising since the decree to justify the modification of a decree for maintenance of children. Gould v. Gould, 226 Mich. 340. And where alimony is due and unpaid, the court may modify the decree as to the accrued amount. Nixon v. Wright, 146 Mich. 231 (10 Ann. Cas. 547).”
We note that the procedure in the Loomis Case, where plaintiff filed petition for attachment for nonpayment of alimony and defendant answered with a motion to amend the divorce decree, was substantially the same as that in the present case, where plaintiff began contempt proceedings and defendant countered with a petition to amend the decree.
Plaintiff certainly was dilatory in her efforts to collect the alimony from year to year. Her failure for a period of nearly 15 years to use reasonable efforts to obtain payment through the means provided by law lends credence to defendant’s claim that she agreed not to collect it if he would agree not *584to visit the child. Apparently she elected to support the child herself rather than to compel defendant to contribute the decreed alimony for his support. We do not overlook the fact that she remarried within five days after divorcing defendant, but the four children resulting from such second marriage cannot operate to impose any additional obligations on defendant. Her claim for alimony long past due, which she failed to use reasonable efforts to collect, is in large part a stale claim.
In the case of Smith v. Smith, 246 Mich. 80, involving proceedings for the nonpayment of alimony, we said:
' ‘ Over 20 years elapsed between the time payment was due under the decree and the date of filing this petition. While the proofs disclose that the defendant was absent from this State during a large portion of this period, it appears that he resided within the State for eight and a half years. * * * While courts should render every reasonable assistance in enforcing their decretal orders affecting property rights, they are not bound to aid litigants who are not reasonably diligent in the enforcement of such rights.”
See Sullivan v. Sullivan, 300 Mich. 640; Stone v. Stone, 162 Mich. 319; Zoellner v. Zoellner, 46 Mich. 511; Price v. Price, 80 Col. 158 (249 Pac. 648); Franck v. Franck, 107 Ky. 362 (54 S. W. 195); Bogert v. Watts, 32 N. Y. Supp. (2d) 750.
In the case of Van Dommelen v. Van Dommelen, 218 Mich. 149, 154, we said:
“In making the award (of alimony), and later in enforcing it, the court is expected and required to have due regard to the ability of the husband, the character and circumstances of the parties and all other circumstances of the caseW
*585See Barry v. Barry, 291 Mich. 666; Tyson v. Tyson, 283 Mich. 192; Kelly v. Kelly, 194 Mich. 94; Aldrich v. Aldrich, 166 Mich. 248.
In view of defendant’s present financial condition and the facts and circumstances shown by the record, it certainly would be inequitable and purposeless to saddle him with a debt of $5,775 for the reimbursement of plaintiff, which debt he apparently would never be able to pay. "We are impressed with the recommendation of the friend of the court that, upon defendant’s paying plaintiff $300, the balance of the accumulated alimony be cancelled. The record clearly indicates such a change in the circumstances and condition of the parties as to justify the amendment of the decree by cancelling all unpaid alimony except the sum of $300 find the $20 per month allowance pending this appeal. Such amounts are all that defendant, in his present financial condition, can reasonably be expected to pay.
"We conclude that, upon defendant’s paying to the friend of the court for plaintiff’s benefit, the $20 per month, pending this appeal, as provided by the trial court’s order of February 4, 1943, and paying the further sum of $300 in monthly instalments of $20- each, the balance of the accrued and unpaid alimony shall be cancelled.
The order of the trial court entered January 11, 1943, is vacated and set aside and a decree may be entered in this court in accordance with this opinion. Such decree shall remand the case to the trial court for such further proceedings as may be necessary. In view of the financial condition of the parties no costs are allowed.
North, C. J., and Wiest, Boyles, and Reid, JJ., concurred with Stare, J.